Yesterday afternoon I went for a drive around Austin, looking at big houses in expensive neighborhoods. I’m going to start doing a bit of real estate investing and I wanted to get myself in the proper frame of mind.
Now, as some of you know there are a variety of ways to make money in real estate both in low end and high end houses. I did not, however, go drive around any of the low end areas. Why? Because those places don’t make me feel good. While there is a lot of money to be made with junkers, I prefer to invest in very high dollar areas… because driving around there makes me feel great. More importantly it also gets me accustomed to being around high dollar houses.
See, many real estate investors never touch very high dollar homes because they are terrified by the zeros behind the house value, and they feel scared when they’re around those kinds of houses–yet it would be just as easy for them to use their knowledge and make more money dealing with very pretty houses than ugly houses. They think they’re “out of their league.”
The exact same thing happens with guys when it comes to beautiful women. Many guys get pretty good at talking to regular women, but freeze up when they meet an incredibly beautiful woman even though it is actually easier to succeed with beautiful women if you know what you’re doing.
Most guys don’t succeed because, like the average real estate investor, they believe such women are “out of their league.” Here’s the truth: there’s no such thing as a “league,” unless you impose it on yourself. You just have to adjust your self image to be comfortable with the surroundings you choose to play in.
Here’s how to do that with beautiful women. Start by putting yourself in situations where you’re surrounded by them. Go to the gym where they work out (I know where that is in Austin), eat lunch in the areas they do, and go to the bars and nightclubs where they go. Don’t try to “pick up” on them, just get used to being around them.
Watch how they interact with men, and you’ll notice something very interesting. Almost every single guy will try to impress them with how much money they make, how perfect their hair is, or how important their job is. They tell them how beautiful they are and ask if they can “take them out.” And most of them get shot down.
Why? Because beautiful women hear this silliness over and over and over. They don’t care about it. What they want is a bright, fun, intelligent guy who will define authority for them, make them laugh, and be a real, genuine human being with them–what all women want.
Most beautiful women rarely get this, though because their beauty attracts a lot of phony guys or guys who think these women want to be put on a pedestal. Sure a few of them do, but not the majority. They just want a guy who knows how to create attraction for them, and guy who can make them laugh and is not intimidated by them.
When you’re comfortable being around beautiful women, it’s time to start spending time with them. Start by going to the internet and writing as many as you can find, especially the ones without pictures. If you use the strategies I teach in the Women Approach You System you will get plenty of responses from beautiful women.
Then when you go to meet them in person it will be no big deal because you’re used to being around them, you know the world is full of them, and you can concentrate on creating attraction for her, and being the naughty little boy she craves but never gets to see because guys are too busy kissing her ass.
The “naughty boy” is incredibly effective with beautiful women because they rarely get to experience it. In fact, when you start engaging in “naughty boy” behavior, you’ll discover these women have a “naughty girl” side they rarely get to indulge.
You’d be amazed at how many good “fart stories” I’ve swapped with incredibly beautiful women, stories they’d never hear from the guys who usually chase them. This has created more attraction for them than all the BMW’s fancy houses, and wads of cash in the world.
So, if you want to attract beautiful women, get used to being around them like I just described, and get your naughty side ready to go–you’re going to need it!
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