We, in west seem to be obsessed with age. Both men and women go to great lengths to keep their age under wraps and appear younger. As one advance in years, it becomes difficult to find partners as being old is equated with boring, dull and unadventurous. Thankfully, it is not so in Asian countries such as China. It is not unusual to see young and pretty Chinese women dating and marrying men several years their senior. Even while dating online, Chinese girls don’t really mind the age of their dating partner as long as they are caring, interesting and have honorable intentions.
Despite the fact that most Chinese women continue to look way younger than their western counterparts of same age, most guys still make a beeline for youngest and prettiest of the lot. Nothing wrong in it so long you don’t try to act like younger men in order to attract their attention or win their affection. If they want younger men, I am sure they will have plenty to choose from. Most Chinese women who choose to date older men do so because they want someone mature, sensible and stable. Your attempts at playing young will only confuse and disappoint them.
While exceptions are always there, age difference does make a relationship more complex. While you have “been there and done that” she is just beginning to explore life and experimenting with it. Her energy and vivaciousness makes you feel alive but it is likely that you start finding difficult to keep up with it after a while. She still has to experience and learn the lessons that you have already learnt.
Dating and chatting with someone who is closer to your own age is not such a bad idea. Chinese women in their 30’s not only have much more to talk about but are also more experienced and ready for a loving relationship. Moreover, they also know how to make it happen.
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