First things first, if you decide to date a married woman you need to understand the ground rules. Too many men get involved with married woman thinking there are just a few subtle differences in the relationship dynamics but the truth of the matter is that the differences are enormous and must be understood completely if you want to take the plunge.
Some of the obvious differences are that there are simply a few obvious road-bumps (some might consider them drawbacks). For one thing you can’t take her out on a regular date, you can’t be seen together in public and you will have to run around from time to time to make it work, but for those that like this type of relationship, there is simply no substitute.
I should qualify this article by saying I don’t necessarily condone this type of relationship and every situation and married woman is different. It is also a very risky enterprise because there is another man who would probably not be too pleased with his wife and concurrently, you, if you were caught. However, in saying that, if a person does decide to have a relationship with a married woman, then their are certain basic principles which must be understood in order for the affair to work:
She Gets To Call All The Shots:
A married woman has a home, a husband and possibly a set of very cute children she loves very much. Unless you are interested in having the married affair lasting less than one meeting, you better let her do the shot-calling. This is a very important concept to understand because above all else, you must realize that she is in charge and will need her space. You need to be on her watch, not yours.
Give The Married Woman A Good Time:
A married woman starts an affair because she wants to rekindle a lost passion and her husband simply isn’t doing his job. So for a married woman affair you need to be good in the sack. There is no way around this, no if’s, and’s or but’s, if you do not please her in the bedroom you better forget about having an affair with a married woman.
Don’t Get Emotional:
This isn’t your girlfriend and a married woman doesn’t need another man to take care of. She already has one of those at home and he obviously isn’t very exciting. You need to be exciting without any of the drama. In other words, she doesn’t want to hear your problems and is not interested in getting to know the inner-you. Just remember this is all about having a little fun and not getting caught doing it.
Mum’s The Word:
Keep your mouth shut when having a married woman affair. Don’t tell your friends, don’t tell your mom (that was a joke) and certainly don’t post it to your Twitter page. This is all about secrecy and if you want the married affair to continue you will certainly remember that mum’s the word.
Don’t Tell Her About Other Woman:
Just because she doesn’t want you to propose marriage to her (she already did that and it didn’t work out that well) doesn’t mean you need to tell her about other woman you are dating. Again, the point is that she wants to have fun with you and probably even likes you, so don’t spoil it by giving her any reasons to call it off. Woman get jealous even if they don’t mean to so just keep your mouth shut and be thankful that she wants to have a good time.
If you follow these five simple guidelines you should be well on your way to having a good old fashion married woman affair. Just remember not to spoil it by opening your mouth.
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