Top Secrets to Starting a Conversation Successfully With a Woman You Have Never Met
The idea of approaching a woman you have never met before and initiating a conversation with can be dreadful and frightening to many men. How many times did you see a beautiful young woman passing you by and you were so eager to say something to her, but were afraid to take that chance.
How many times have you met some gorgeous looking women in clubs, restaurants, malls, sitting next to you on an airplane but were afraid to even introduce yourself, let alone engaged in small talk? Clearly, starting a conversation with a woman you have never met takes some knowledge, guts, and some practice. The following techniques will steer you in the right direction.
Technique One: Change Your Attitude in a Positive and Constructive Way.
Have strong faith in yourself. As you are about to approach the woman, keep your cool and do not be afraid of rejection (in case you feel nervous). If you feel nervous, pinch a part of your body and release; that might help to calm your nerves.
Technique Two: Make Eye Contact (but never stare at her) and Be a Little Bit Daring.
Eye contact is one of the most powerful means of communications. It shows that you are interested in knowing her a bit. It also shows that you are paying attention to her. Before you even start conversing or breaking the ice, make sure that you use eye contact and then quickly take your eyes off her. This helps build a bridge and a rapport between her and you, which would allow you establish yourself as a person whom she could trust, at least a bit.
Technique Three: Break the Ice and Keep Things Simple.
Say, “Hi. My name is Joe!” Note that after you say, “Hi,” you must make a brief pause, and then you say your name. Let her respond. It is that simple. You must remember that she does not know anything about you; therefore, it is of utmost importance that you move slowly right now by not providing too much information. The less information that you give her about you at this stage, more interested she may become. By the same token, this does not mean that you should act like a tongue-tied individual. You ought to strike a balance between talking too much and allow her to partake in the conversation.
Technique Four: Use Conversational Topics Of Interest.
Use topics, such as the temperature, the climate, air pollution, noise level, vacation spots, tourist destinations, politics, the economy, to name a few. One of the ways to find out what topic to use with the person you want to speak with is through communication, which should follow the greetings stage.
Get a hint from the words, terms, and expressions that she uses to come up with a fairly good topic of choice upon which will serve as a background for your conversation with her. If you sit next to a woman on a bus, a train, etc., you can initiate a small talk with her and.
You want to make sure that, whatever her educational level, she can comment on your choice of topics. If your topics of discussion are too difficult for her to understand, she will be irresponsive, incompetent, and uneasy. You would have placed a roadblock between her and you.
On the contrary, you should employ topics of common knowledge, which are designed to put her at ease and give her a degree of confidence. Now that she can easily comment on your introductory topic, she feels comfortable and relaxed. She may want to chat even more with you.
There are endless opportunities whereby you can start a conversation with a woman you have never met before. For complete information on techniques one through four, read the eBook titled “Top Secrets to Approaching a Woman, Seducing Her and Taking Her on a Date or Getting Her into Bed.”
Technique Five: Walk Up To Her, Strike Up a Conversation, and Get Connected.
For instance, if you happen to meet her in a park, you might say something like that: “Hi!” “My name is Raul.” (Let her respond.) More likely than not, she would). You must look your best and be your best. Use a smooth but masculine tone of voice. Then say, “I am new in town.” (Even if you are not) “If I may ask, what’s the name of this park?” Or something along this line of thought. After the introduction, initiate small talk followed by a topic of interest, as outlined above
There is a plethora of opportunities to keep the conversation going: If it is hot, say to her, “I wonder if it’s always that hot around here, what you think?” If it is cold, ask similar question in a conversational manner. Make sure that you do not get into anything too personal at this point as both of you start to know each other at that level. One of your goals is to take the conversation to the next level where you can exchange personal information, such as phone numbers and email addresses, etc. On the other hand, if you can take the woman home the same night, do so if this is what you are after.
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