The most biggest obstacle that allot of guys have when it comes to attracting a woman is that little voice that often reminds us that we’re not good enough.
Women will often feel pressure to have a perfect bikini. For men we feel the pressure to be physically attractive too, as well as masculine and witty. If we don’t score well in any of these areas it can lead to a lack of self confidence with the ladies.
Unfortunately most men get to a point where they don’t bother anymore to attract women, because they’ve gotten the notion that female standards are now just too high to meet.
Ironically, most dating experts would agree that the number one thing a man needs to posses to be attractive to the fairer sex is self confidence.
A woman will say they are looking for a nice guy, but so often they end up with the bad boy type. A woman will say that a guys looks don’t matter but it seems that the best looking men date the most desirable women.
Self confidence is they key . The bad boys and the physically attractive guys usually have an abundance of self confidence.
Attracting a woman is like any other goal we might have. Real confidence comes from past achievements. Past successes or “victories” give us confidence for future success.
Do you see the problem with this thinking? It will quickly become a vicious self-fulfilling cycle.
The basic problem is when you believe that you are not capable of the goal you set out to accomplish, your lack of confidence will cause your failure.
You are going to have to meet a lot of woman, and work on your self confidence levels if you ever hope to attract a woman.
O.K. here is the plan, you need to get into the game. Do do this you are going to meed social circles, join some coed clubs and groups.
Practice approaching women, like practicing anything else that you hope to excel at, will give you what you need to excel; confidence.
Practice being near women, and in their space. Do this by talking with every woman that you come in contact with. Don’t try to be witty, just be yourself.
Take it step-by-step. It is clear because you are reading this that you lack confidence to approach and talk to a woman. To what extent you have this apprehension, only you know. If simply saying hello to a woman is uncomfortable for you, start there. Your first step should be to just say hello to every woman that you meet.
From your starting point, practice until you feel a level of confidence with women, then step it up to longer conversations.
The most powerful of all female attraction triggers is confidence. In other words women are attracted to the Alpha male. To attract a women, practice until you gain the confidence you need to be attractive.
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