While it is quite common for men from across the globe to feel a natural attraction towards Chinese women, it is equally common for their females from those countries and cultures to treat them with disrespect and suspect their intentions. Sadly, the bias faced by Chinese females choosing to date foreign men is not restricted to women foreign to their society and culture. Not many of us are aware of the fact that Chinese society in general is equally biased towards women who seek a foreign partner. Many such women have to face stiff opposition from family, friends and society for their decision to marry or even date a man from a foreign community.
A large percentage of Chinese women, who use online dating sites, are generally quite secretive about it. This is because they are well aware of the fact that their families would not approve of their association with a man they know only through online interactions. Most Chinese parents feel that their daughters are not mature enough to find a suitable life mate on their own and as such discourage them from becoming involved in online dating. In many cases, family friends and acquaintances believe that the whole idea of seeking a foreign mate by a Chinese lady is to escape the traditional lifestyle of their society or even to fulfill their unrealistic dreams and aspirations.
Another common reason that might cause Chinese people to be prejudiced against the Chinese women choosing to marry foreign men is the skewed sex ratio in the Chinese society. With millions of men facing the problem of not being able to find a suitable wife, Chinese people in general feel that the decision of their females to marry outside their own culture is totally unjustified. This, they feel, is especially true in view of the drastic socio-economic changes that the Chinese society is undergoing and which gives greater freedom and career options to Chinese females, enabling them to fulfill their personal and professional ambitions within China itself
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