Do you remember when you learned how to kiss a girl? I am not talking about the girl you started dating last week. I mean your very first kiss. I really do not remember much about mine. I was around 12 or 13 and I was visiting my best friend’s house. His parents had left for a party so we decided to have one of our own. Mike had called some guys and girls over and the night was going along smoothly until someone decided that we should play spin the bottle. It was an even number of guys and girls there so a guy would go first followed by a girl. Somehow, I was chosen to go first. I spun the bottle and it landed on Kate.
As soon as it did, all I could feel was my heart pounding in my chest and the blood roaring in my ears, I was sure I was going to pass out from the excitement. When our lips touched, I did not even think about the fact that I was finally kissing a girl! I was just worried that I would be so awful she would tell everyone that I was the worst kisser in town. Well I must not have been too terrible because Kate never mentioned our kiss again.
Their is a reason why I bought up the story of my first kiss though guys. That kiss happened a long time ago, but all the details are still crystal clear in my mind. If you plan to know how to kiss a girl, you should understand that the first kiss should be memorable! Of course, how memorable a kiss should be also depends on how serious you plan on letting a relationship go.
If you and a girl are only having causal sex, then making the kiss memorable might not be a priority for you. However, the kiss should still be hot enough to make her toes curl in her stilettos if you think you are going to be able to get her into your bed. Their are several key elements that help when learning how to kiss a girl and make the moment one she won’t forget.
To make a first kiss a memorable experience you should be thinking about where and when you want to have that kiss. I know guys who always kiss a girl on the night of their first date, then I have friends who do not even wait until they make it too a date. They meet a hot girl in a bar and after a couple of drinks and some flirting, they are making out with the girl in front of a crowd!
The best type of first kiss is typically the type that you do not plan in advance, it just develops naturally when you and the girl are ready. Of course, guys their are plenty of ways you can build up sexual heat in order to make a woman want to be kissed by you sooner. Reduce the wait time for that first kiss by getting rid of any barriers in your way physical or emotional.
Start engaging a woman in conversation and find out more about her, some women tend to hide behind barriers because they are weary of being hurt, if you want that kiss show her how much she can trust you.
If you want to know how to kiss a girl and make it memorable, you can start by initiating physical contact. You are going to have trouble kissing a girl who is uncomfortable with your hand touching her arm or you rubbing against her bare skin. Start with slow thoughtful contact that would be acceptable from anyone, such as giving her a hug when you meet her then building from their.
Once you sense that a girl is ready to kiss you, don’t rush it. The first kiss with a woman is meant to be savored, and explored. As the man, you should initiate the kiss, leaning into her and tilting your head to the side so you can kiss without bumping noses. Take the kiss as slow or fast as you want too. If she does not draw back after a few seconds or hesitate then take the kiss deeper by sliding your tongue into her mouth. If you get out of breath, pull back from the kiss for a moment and kiss her on the check on throat before heading back in for another kiss.
Now that you know how to kiss a girl and have gotten that first kiss out of the way, you can move as fast or as slow as you want to get that second kiss and start a sexual relationship. Kiss her as often as possible if you want her too be just as eager as you are.