Is it possible to get your ex love back? Perhaps you have tried everything or think you have tried everything, but what you do just doesn’t seem to work. In fact, it seems to achieve the opposite outcome of what you want. Instead of attracting your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back, you push him or her away instead.
The problem here is, it seems that the harder you try, the more you seem to push your ex further away. So, what exactly is the problem here? Why is it that the harder you try, the worse the situation becomes? What are the things that may have push your ex lover further away?
Well, maybe you have been calling your ex a little bit too often? It is usually not a good idea to call your ex so many times in a single day. Perhaps your ex is not picking up the phone and you really want to talk to him or her, therefore, it causes you to panic and to call your ex lover over and over again?
Or maybe you have been sending your ex boyfriend or girlfriend too many text messages, saying things like, “Please call me back.”, “I love you”, “I can’t live without you”?
Sending all these messages is not going to help you in winning your ex lover back because your ex will only feel unnecessary pressure. This unnecessary pressure will only serve to irritate your ex lover and makes him or her want to run away as fast as possible. This is certainly not the result that you desire or is looking for.
Another reason why you do not want to do those things mentioned above is because your ex lover will only have the impression that you are acting out of neediness or desperation, which is definitely a great “NO NO” if you really want to win back an ex.
Instead, you want to do things in a more gradual manner. You should not try to rush things. Sometimes, getting an ex back requires a bit of patience on your part. First, if you have just broken up, it is probably a good idea to cut off all contact with your ex for the first few weeks to allow your emotions to heal.
With a clearer mind, you will be in a better position to decide what you want to do next and thus will reduce the chances of you making mistakes that drive your ex further away.
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