Ask just about any guy out there and the ability to attract a woman is pretty high on his personal wish list. Sure, there might be some other things that interest you, but you have to admit, being able to walk into any situation, spot an attractive woman and have her falling for you is pretty appealing. Yet, we all know that this is not the reality for a lot of guys out there. We all know that many single guys are suffering in silence about their “perceived” inability to attract women.
This happens a lot due to the way that many guys have been conditioned to think about dating. There are stereotypes of what attracts a woman that have little basis in reality, but are believed to be true. And they just might be the exact things that are holding YOU back from really thriving when it comes to attracting women.
Here are five points to ponder if you want to attract a woman and make her want YOU badly:
1. Women are NOT the enemy.
This is one of the ones that really needs to go away. There are guys out there that almost perceive women to be the enemy, the reason for why they are not as successful with women as they want to be. And it could not be further from the truth. As an average guy that has no problem whatsoever walking up to a woman that is supposedly out of my league and being able to turn on the charm and make her feel attraction, I can tell you that this belief will keep you frustrated, alone, and single.
2. If you want to make her feel attraction for YOU, then you have to become ATTRACTIVE.
Now, some guys interpret this as needing to have a perfect gym body or a polished roadster to drive in, but really, it’s more about your personality with women that makes all of the difference. You would not believe how easily you can change your results with women IF you decide to make yourself more attractive and more dynamic with your personality. Bland and boring is not going to get you anywhere.
3. Flirting is a pre requisite.
Some guys will almost avoid flirting with a woman and then they wonder why she doesn’t seem to feel that way about them. If you want to make her think of you as something more than a friend and not even remotely close to being a brother figure, then you have to be able to flirt with a woman. If you don’t, then you are the one that is going to slam the door shut on your opportunity to create a connection and to create chemistry with her.
4. She needs to see that you are an alpha male in the best of terms.
You don’t want to smash beer cans on your forehead to prove your an alpha male. You DO want to be able to make a woman feel safe and secure and intrigued when she is with you. You DO want her to see you as a confident man that has charm and charisma and can bring out the best in her.
5. You have to understand what it is that triggers attraction in a woman.
If you don’t know what it is that makes a woman feel attracted to a man for more than friendship, then you will have no idea on what to do when you are with her. Don’t be intimidated with this. You don’t have to become an expert in female psychology. You just have to learn how to spot the little things that will make her want you and then “pull” those triggers at the right time.
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