Learning how to attract beautiful women is something most guys feel is impossible. “I’m not her type.” “Attracting beautiful women is just something some guys are born with, and I’m just not one of those guys.” “She’s way out of my league.” Sound familiar? Well, get all that behind you! By the end of this article, you will know everything you need to attract beautiful women at will by unleashing the confidence from within you.
The most important thing to remember is that the guys that attract beautiful women are really no different than you, except for one major thing: they know what works, and they put it into action. That is honestly much easier than it sounds. These tips and simple steps will help reinforce what works, and all you have to do is take action. The best part is that taking action gets easier and easier, the more you get the results you desire. That’s how ‘those guys’ end up getting every girl you’ve ever liked, and by the night’s end you’ll be better than them, and not nearly as shallow.
The 3 basic stages of attraction:
1) For Starters
3) The beyond
These are the three essential stages to attracting beautiful women. Each one is driven by one thing: confidence. The key is to show her you’re confident with yourself, and confident that you can improve her life in some way, without bragging or making her uncomfortable.
Appearance is very important for getting things started. No matter how your appearance stands right now, there are hundreds of simple things you can do to improve it. Clothes, build, skin, accessories and cars are all examples of simple things to improve your confidence. You’ve seen it a million times: the guys that get them all just seem to have it all. There’s no coincidence here. However, the key is not to replicate everyone else, but to create your own identity, slightly bending the mold.
You do NOT have to be rich, talented, smart, ripped or hilarious to attract beautiful women. Having a balance of some or all of these things is much better for sealing the deal. If you drive up in a Ferrari and you have huge muscles, you’ll get tons of attention. But when the hot girls that talk to you find out you’re a total jerk you’ll have a tough time from that point on.
Do the things you want to do to improve your own life and build your confidence, and the beautiful women will be attracted with no effort.
Just find your identity with your appearance, and play it up. Build as much confidence in yourself as possible by taking simple steps to improve your looks like taking care of your skin, nails, hair, etc. and exercising regularly. Be sure to stick to a good diet, eating 5-6 small meals per day and avoiding high-fat and oily foods. There are tons of sources for info on these topics, and many are free. Simply subscribing to a magazine or two or looking online can help with many of these things. Follow solid advice and watch your energy skyrocket along with your confidence!
After you’ve built up your confidence, you’ll be surprised at how much easier it is to approach gorgeous women. Keep things simple. Think first about what she would expect, and how it’s different from what she wants. Think from her perspective and stay confident.
Strike up a conversation about anything going on around you, not about her looks with some cheesy pickup line! Once she starts to respond, focus on the basics. Let her talk about herself, but put in your two cents. Play off of her emotions. Make her laugh, get slightly dramatic even, just don’t get carried away with details and overwhelm her. Don’t complain about your problems, don’t mention inside jokes, and don’t talk politics, religion or dirty jokes.
Always keep things comfortable, but don’t be afraid to push the envelope without offending. Tease her about something little, ask her about sex, feel free to get her thinking, as long as she is comfortable!
Tell her what you’re into, your dreams, where you work, where you want to work, where you’re from. There is so much to talk about when you first meet someone. Get excited to hear about her life, and make sure to tell her about yours. Just keep a balance between prying too much and being boring, and you’ll easily move on to the fun part!
3) The beyond
After you hit it off with her, you’re home free. Whether you’re looking for a one-night stand, someone to date randomly or even a spouse, it’s all the same at first. Treat her right, gradually reveal more about yourself and dig deeper into her life. Don’t be too pushy, but don’t be afraid to talk about sex and your relationship status, as it feels comfortable.
The more you get to know her, the easier it will be for you to determine where you want to go with the relationship. Stay confident, and get what you want. The best way to attract beautiful women is to be confident with yourself by taking action to improve your own life, then finding a balance when learning about her. Take this advice, put it into action, and attract beautiful women at will!
To recap, your three steps to attract beautiful women and gain unstoppable confidence are:
1) Decide what you want to improve about yourself and your life
2) Learn as much as you can from people who know how to do what you want to do
3) Take action and enjoy life!
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